Nervosity - Alphaville Forum

AV_defender · 01 Jun 2004, 08:02

What makes you nervous and why??

Alright, i'll go first!!
Next Saturday I'm going to the school prom and I'm so nervous that I think I'm gonna pass away soon. I have the dress, I have the hairstyle, the shiny white gloves, the shoes and everything else that is necessary. I also have someone to go with, and there's the problem. The boy I'm going with is the flame in my heart since 1.5 years, and I'm so afraid that something will go wrong, like that i'll brake my leg with the high heels..or just simply that he will be bored to death with me. I know him pretty well as he is the son of those that I rent my apartement from..but...
Could anyone give me some advice how I could stop worrying?

FallenAngel · 01 Jun 2004, 09:53

Having more belief in yourself and stop worrying! I had it to and I started to belief in that if I really wants something I can do it. Maybe you should do the same thing.

Alphaanni · 01 Jun 2004, 10:07

just be yourself!!! stop worrying as it said before! relaxe and DONT get drunk! sometimes people think thats the best way to calm down and to be funny - WRONG!
get comfi in your high heels, wear them at home and walk walk walk!! :-))
good luck!!!

Jonatan · 01 Jun 2004, 10:11

No matter how nervous you are, he is probably even MORE nervous (though you might not think so). Think of that.

Besides, don't worry BEFORE, then you'll have to worry TWO times!

Avil · 01 Jun 2004, 16:25

Get yourself a drink and relax. You are supposed to have fun, and I'm sure you will. And if he gets bored, he is the one with bad taste when it comes to girls, because you are very pretty dear!

Since I'm active in politics, I have to meet a lot of new people. I hate to speak in front of a lot of people, taking tv-interviews and such things. But I did survive an interview with the newspaper and since then, it feels a bit better.

Just do it, that's my advice!

Christina

Mags · 01 Jun 2004, 16:51

Being nervous is natural (I used to get sooooo nervous) but at least for me I always found that once the date actually started all the nerves melted away and I had a wonderful time...you will too :). Practice walking in your high heels and if you have time, go for a walk before the prom, that always helped me to relax. Like Anja said, be yourself, that is always best. Have fun Maiju!

Krapplund · 01 Jun 2004, 17:11

I just say HAVE A GREAT TIME AND EVERYTHING WILL GO WELL!!!!

Take care!

Sixshot88 · 01 Jun 2004, 17:15

just relax and chill :)

MalilaM · 01 Jun 2004, 19:34

Someone gave me this piece of advice once: When you're nervous and fear that you will trip every step, make the table glasses drop, or hit someone without intention, just try to move slowly, so you don't feel clumsy... you'll be more and more confident knowing you're in control of your movements and you will relax...

About the boy... well, you have nothing to be nervous about... just like they say, be yourself, and (Jonatan is likely to be right) let him be the one to worry

Jonatan · 01 Jun 2004, 20:41

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quote:Originally posted by MalilaM

About the boy... well, you have nothing to be nervous about... just like they say, be yourself, and (Jonatan is likely to be right) let him be the one to worry

Why should I worry [question]

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01 Jun 2004, 08:02	#1
AV_defender Exclusive Fanclub Member Join Date: 06 Dec 2000 Location: Arjeplog, , Sweden. Posts: 1,279	Nervosity What makes you nervous and why?? Alright, i'll go first!! Next Saturday I'm going to the school prom and I'm so nervous that I think I'm gonna pass away soon. I have the dress, I have the hairstyle, the shiny white gloves, the shoes and everything else that is necessary. I also have someone to go with, and there's the problem. The boy I'm going with is the flame in my heart since 1.5 years, and I'm so afraid that something will go wrong, like that i'll brake my leg with the high heels..or just simply that he will be bored to death with me. I know him pretty well as he is the son of those that I rent my apartement from..but... Could anyone give me some advice how I could stop worrying?

01 Jun 2004, 09:53	#2
FallenAngel Some Kind Of Angel Join Date: 11 Apr 2003 Location: In the middle of the riddle... Posts: 23,740	Having more belief in yourself and stop worrying! I had it to and I started to belief in that if I really wants something I can do it. Maybe you should do the same thing. You can do just what you wanna You can kill or you can die Be a beggar or a princess But you'll never lose your style Ephemere - Fallen Angel

01 Jun 2004, 10:11	#4
Jonatan Arranged in White Join Date: 17 Nov 2000 Location: Göteborg, Sweden Posts: 3,521	No matter how nervous you are, he is probably even MORE nervous (though you might not think so). Think of that. Besides, don't worry BEFORE, then you'll have to worry TWO times! Take care

01 Jun 2004, 16:51	#6
Mags Moonshine Join Date: 11 Feb 2003 Location: Berlin, Germany Posts: 1,984	Being nervous is natural (I used to get sooooo nervous) but at least for me I always found that once the date actually started all the nerves melted away and I had a wonderful time...you will too :). Practice walking in your high heels and if you have time, go for a walk before the prom, that always helped me to relax. Like Anja said, be yourself, that is always best. Have fun Maiju! Open your eyes and let the sun break in for a while...there may be something that you've never seen inside...

01 Jun 2004, 17:11	#7
Krapplund Dream Keeper www.krapplund.com Join Date: 09 Nov 2000 Location: Emmaboda, Sweden. Posts: 17,538	I just say HAVE A GREAT TIME AND EVERYTHING WILL GO WELL!!!! Take care! "Alphaville ohne Bernhard ist wie eine Apfelstrudel ohne apfel" 17'04'2003 www.krapplund.com

01 Jun 2004, 10:07	#3
Alphaanni [less is more] Join Date: 25 Oct 2002 Location: BERLIN Posts: 1,052	just be yourself!!! stop worrying as it said before! relaxe and DONT get drunk! sometimes people think thats the best way to calm down and to be funny - WRONG! get comfi in your high heels, wear them at home and walk walk walk!! :-)) good luck!!!

01 Jun 2004, 16:25	#5
Avil The dream Join Date: 12 Nov 2000 Location: Malmö, Sweden Posts: 8,154	Get yourself a drink and relax. You are supposed to have fun, and I'm sure you will. And if he gets bored, he is the one with bad taste when it comes to girls, because you are very pretty dear! Since I'm active in politics, I have to meet a lot of new people. I hate to speak in front of a lot of people, taking tv-interviews and such things. But I did survive an interview with the newspaper and since then, it feels a bit better. Just do it, that's my advice! Christina

01 Jun 2004, 17:15	#8
Sixshot88 Exclusive Fanclub Member Join Date: 11 Dec 2003 Location: Brimstone Stormclouds, Göteborg Posts: 119	just relax and chill :) One should always play fair when one has the winning cards - Oscar Wilde

01 Jun 2004, 19:34	#9
MalilaM Random Motion Join Date: 07 Jul 2002 Location: Mexico City, Mexico Posts: 15,876	Someone gave me this piece of advice once: When you're nervous and fear that you will trip every step, make the table glasses drop, or hit someone without intention, just try to move slowly, so you don't feel clumsy... you'll be more and more confident knowing you're in control of your movements and you will relax... About the boy... well, you have nothing to be nervous about... just like they say, be yourself, and (Jonatan is likely to be right) let him be the one to worry ♪ ♫ ♪ I must be going crazy or the brandy's won the race ♪ ♫ ♪ 32